Saturday, December 22, 2012


Results of Your
Borderline Personality Test

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You scored a total of  48

Severe Borderline Personality Disorder Likely

You answered this self-report test in a way that's consistent with people who have been diagnosed with severe Borderline Personality Disorder. This suggests that these concerns may be an issue for you as well, and something that you should seek out further assistance with this issue from a trained mental health professional immediately. Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by a pattern of unstable and intense relationships, as well as frantic efforts to avoid abandonment -- even if it's not real.
You should not take this as a diagnosis of any sort, or a recommendation for treatment. However, you may want to look into seeking further consultation with a trained mental health professional if you are experiencing any difficulties in daily functioning or if you'd like a more in-depth answer.

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20 - 32
15 - 19
0 - 14
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Possible
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Squatter collected rent for Kelso home, police say

Squatter collected rent for Kelso home, police say


RECEPTIONIST KELSO LEGAL OFFICE



What can I do if I am not satisfied with my services?   First, contact the agency directly with your Complaint.  Each agency has a Customer Service Representative who can assist you if you have a question, concern, or complaint about your services.  If you are not satisfied with the resolution, and wish to file a Grievance, please contact the Mental Health Ombuds to help resolve your complaint or grievance.  You may also contact the SWRSN Quality Manager at 360-501-1201 or 800-347-6092.  You can file an Appeal if you receive a written Notice of
Action
 from the SWRSN. 
 Mental Health Ombuds
c/o Southwest Regional Support Network
1952 9th Ave.
Longview, WA 98632
(360) 414-0237

Who can help me with a Grievance, Appeal or Fair Hearing?  The Mental Health Ombuds can assist you with grievances, appeals, and the state fair hearing process.  The Ombuds helps enrollees resolve concerns about mental health services. 




Squatter collected rent for Kelso home, police say

Squatter collected rent for Kelso home, police say

Words of a Catholic Nun in 18th Centry


Our Lady’s joy should be ours because she gave us JOY itself, God, her divine son. But she is our joy, too in herself. The thought of our Lady simply resting in our minds, gives steadiness to our joy. We need not even think ABOUT her, just think OF her. We all know what the purity of the atmosphere is after a quiet steady snowfall----so does the thought of our Lady clarify the soul; removing perplexity, foreboding, unrest, diffidence----we may not see our way out, but we have the certainty that it will come.
The awe of God’s Presence would make us silent and strengthened by silence…Hope is also strengthened by it, since the silent soul is best instructed by the Sacred Heart; so also it has our Lord’s own private teaching of the Holy Ghost---and those always bring hope and sweetness to the soul.
It is in the tending to be last and the appreciation of service, of renunciation, that we shall verify the working of a problem---how far we have understood and how far “the mind is in us which was also in Christ Jesus …Our life must be of giving, not of desiring.  We must pour out our lives to the extent of our capacity for Him, for others, as taking His place.
We must remember that it is better to begin a great work than to finish a small one…the work in the rough…may look ugly and yet be full of promise…A piece of finished insignificance is no true success…Our education is not meant to turn the children out small and finished, but seriously begun on a wide basis. Therefore they must leave us with some self-knowledge, some energy, some purpose…If they leave us without these three things they drift with the stream of life.
It was at Christmas that our Lord as it were took His first plunge into the heart of our troubles, of our difficulties, of our experiences, into the heart of the life we are leading.  And that, not as someone standing at a distance, but as thrown into the stream---feeling the shock, the human astonishment at what took place around Him---feeling the poverty, the pain, the isolation in which He was left. He loves that we should sympathise with Him in it.
                           Lady, elect
                                        As the cedar and palm,
                                        On thy virginal arm
                                                    Is His throne.
                         Show us thy Child
                                     On the day of His birth,
                                     Fair fruit of this earth.
                                                   God and man.
                       Show Him again,
                                    Whom creation adores,
                                    As the sun in his course,
                                                  To our eyes.
                        Show Him at last,
                                     As the eventide falls,
                                     As the curfew bell calls
                                                  To the Compline of rest.  …
                       Where, evermore,
                                    To the exile of years
                                    The vision appears,
                                                Salve!   O Salve!   At last.
The only thing that satisfies in an ordinary Christian standard is the charity that will do and give and suffer, and forget itself, and when it has done all make little of it.  The connection between charity and poverty is noticeable. The poor are reckless and courageous in their gifts and services.
We change too easily under joy or sorrow. They take us off our duty, we lose balance in joy or we give up the struggle and let ourselves go to sadness. Our Lady did not change anything in the course of her life and duties.  We cannot imagine her sitting down with the Child in her arms to grieve over Simeon’s prophecy, or dream of His future greatness. She was at her duties with the same gentleness as if she had not the sword of sorrow in her heart. All the power of the joy and sorrow went out into doing the daily duty with entire submission to the will of God.
Epochs of transition keep us on the alert. They ask us to keep our eyes open on distant horizons, our minds listening to seize every indication that can enlighten us; reading, reflecting, searching must never stop; the mind must keep flexible in order to lose nothing, to acquire any knowledge that can aid our mission or serve for our development.
To hide in the Wounds of Christ, to dwell in His Sacred Heart  are the most spiritual expressions with which the senses have nothing to do.  If they mean anything, they mean that what is most spiritual and inward in our life…our inward life in the most intimate sense, is so united with Him that He is like a habitation or mansion to it; that our thoughts and desires go in and out from there, and that when not called elsewhere by necessity it is there that our soul, our thinking and loving soul, returns to meditate and be at rest in its centre. Not in the material wounds, but in the life of Christ which is laid open to us by them. 
Remember that whatever happens…you must say to yourself, according to circumstances, joyfully and thankfully or humbly and submissively or bravely or if need be, defiantly to the troubles within, “This is part of the story and the story of God’s love for you and yours for Him.”
There are two ways of preparing children for the government of themselves in after-life, one direct and the other indirect. The first has its merits; it is quick in results, often very successful. It fosters piety, inculcates some clear principles, dictates the main lines of action, and by rule and maxim, fits the being into its place in the world, and gives it means to do its duty creditably. The indirect method is longer and less clearly defined. It aims at giving a guiding light within, and power to climb a difficult path, and pick a way through unknown country by that light. This must be waited for, and slowly developed, but in the end it is of greater worth. The training of the Sacred Heart aims at this.

Thou who hast given, O Lord, these souls to me,
Each one a chosen gift, each one alone,
Yet hast not made us many, but the same
One thing, one thing with thee, with thee in one
O sweetest Love!  Let not Thy enemy
Snatch them from Thee, from me. not one, not one;
I hold in fee for Heaven their fealty,
Their homage blent in mine, one with my own.
Most ardent crimson Rose, the Blood of Christ!
Stainless white Rose of God, Eternal Will!
Create and re-create them for Thyself,
Then with Thy Truth and Love their being fill.
To Thee, O Father, to our final end
May we, made perfect in Thy love, attain,
There in Communion---find our unity,
And---made one thing---for ever one remain.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Toni Vossen's Best Eyes (Female) Feb Entry on ExploreTalent.com




                                      Toni Vossen's Best Eyes (Female) Feb Entry on ExploreTalent.com


Toni Vossen's Best Eyes (Female) Feb Entry on ExploreTalent.com

Toni Vossen's Best Eyes (Female) Feb Entry on ExploreTalent.com

1980's




Today in History for January 1980

9th - 63 beheaded in Mecca, Saudi Arabia

10th - Toni Vossen was born this day and Matt Roney, American baseball player birthday
13th - Head of narcotic brigade arrested for drug smuggling in Belgium
16th - Paul McCartney jailed in Tokyo for 10 days on marijuana possession
17th - NASA launches Fltsatcom-3
18th - Gold reaches $1,000 an oz
31st - Police storm occupied Spanish embassy in Guatemala City, killing 41


January 10th, 1980 - The Day I was Born...


Today in History for 10th January 1980

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- Jim Stewart, Bruin's rookie goalie allows 3 goals in his 1st 4 mins & a total of 5 in 1st period; he never again plays in NHL
- Last broadcast of "Rockford Files" on NBC

Famous Birthdays

Birthdays 1 - 2 of 2
- Matt Roney, American baseball player
- Sarah Shahi, American actress and model  

Famous Deaths

Deaths 1 - 2 of 2
- Bo Rein, American college football coach (b. 1945)
- George Meany, labor leader, dies at 86 

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Tuesday, November 20, 2012



Vintage Lot of 20 CAIRO NOVELTY CO Marbles Swirl Variety Lot 24A RARE! c 1950s



Sunday, November 11, 2012

Love this Piece








Self Reliance

What is Self Reliance? How do You Gain Self Reliance?
A basic definition and explanation for the average person seeking self improvement.
your voice in the crowd - 1234RF (http://us.123rf.com/400wm/400/400/kirillm/kirillm1012/kirillm101200052/8486883-uniqe-3d-character-standing-out-from-the-crowd.jpg)
I sometimes read passages and ideas that seem original and not repetitive of anyone else’s ideas written or spoken previously. As the reader you or I sometimes hear an echo in those original ideas of our own sense of values. The only difference may be that someone else has thought to write it down and thus record those thoughts and values as their own. Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote of self reliance; “to believe in your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, -- that is genius”. For anyone to state their personal belief as though it is or could be the belief of other people transforms their personal truth into becoming a more universal truth.
Transversely in every work of genius we may recognize our own rejected thoughts. They come back to us with an oddly alienated recollection, we say to ourselves “I thought that once”. This teaches us to rely on our original impression or else tomorrow another person will say with authority precisely what we thought or felt today and we will be forced to humbly take our opinion from someone else. Although the world is full of great ideas nothing can satisfy us as much as our own thoughts and conclusions. No one but you knows what original thoughts you are capable of. There is power within you to be new and original and it can only be realised and executed by your own will. To half express yourself or to feel shameful of the great theology which only you can represent is, indeed, to fail yourself.
The Effort to Gain Self Reliance
You will be joyful when you have put your heart into your work and have done your best. You may have had this experience at some time in your life. But to give less than your best efforts will not give you that same feeling of satisfaction. You might then lose faith in yourself and in your abilities should what you set out to do or say be left incomplete. Trust yourself. Great men have always done so. Just as children are fearless in accepting their own ideas you can shine as brightly and freely in your original thoughts and embrace a youthful enthusiasm for your own exceptionality. We should make efforts to not allow intimidation or internal doubt to stifle our own good ideas or prevent us from sharing our inner brilliance with others.
Forms of opposition will always arise. People sometimes busy themselves with evaluating the weight of their opposition to an extent that they may doubt the strength their own truth. Even if your message is lost in language barriers it is no less valid. You may have the strength to deliver your platform to your own group but falter with a different audience. This is not the fault of your beliefs or convictions. Communication barriers can be overcome. As your own truth is repeated it will become clearer and more defined;, recognizable even to those who did not hear it the first time. By focusing on our inner srength and positive feedback we can find the inner strength to become and remain true to ourselves building our self reliance
.
One Voice in the Crowd
I have been referring to those voices one hears in the solitude of their own heart. Self reliance thus becomes the enemy of conformity. Society would have us each assimilate to the greater ideals and to lose our own self reliance to a greater concept. To follow your own voice fearlessly you may be labelled a nonconformist but nothing will ever be as sacred to you as the integrity of your own voice. To know your inner voice and not confuse it with any other voice is to develop and know a higher self. To live wholly from within is to come to know your truest self. Following what you know to be right regardless of what influences come from society or colleagues will ground you to your own sense of goodness. This is the development of your personal values.
Your Goodness Must have Some Edge To It
Society may present you with laws and guides; but if they are in conflict with you your own inner decency must have a greater voice. If in your mind there is no goodness in the publications of others do not bend for the sake of acceptance. Stand firm to what you feel is in the right. Be open to discussion and yet as clear as possible in your own communications. If a cause or idea is constructed out of fear or hatred and you recognize it to be that way and not born from goodness you should neither let it taint your own good virtue or allow it to silence your goodness with fear or hatred.
The greater task will be to recognize what is of concern to you. There are always going to be those who feel they know your duty better than you know it yourself. You will feel your own inner strength when you can stand independent in your own thoughts in the midst of the crowd. Do not expect to be understood by all and do not think that those who understand you today will understand tomorrow or that those who do not understand today will not understand tomorrow. Everyone has their own voice and their own experiences. Self reliance involves trusting in your own voice and your own virtue even in opposition by one or by many.
The Ones Without Self
Men may become meek and apologetic who lose themselves to the crowd. You will not know happiness and inner strength if you surrender those things to the crowd and lose your own individuality. Should you adopt the view of the greater voice without also firmly having a voice of your own you may easily be drawn into the mentality of the mob. When the mob voice is heard within a person louder than their own inner voice the whole world will appear to be in conspiracy for lack of individuality. To be in the crowd yet build your inner voice and your inner strength as an individual who recognizes right-mindedness you will not be devalued in your time.
Your inner voice, your virtues, and your self reliance are things that grow within you. It is up to each individual to nurture them within their own experience and protect them from corruption and negativity. They are yours alone not to be diluted in the press of society. Be yourself, speak your truth, and trust yourself and self reliance will become and remain a great part of who you are. This is needed is to recognize the strength that lives within you and keep it firmly there by your own goodness and your truest voice. By this practice you will find your inner self and develope reliance in your own worth.

Love an Addiction, which category are you in?


Love and Addiction: The Love Addicted Relationships

Many people are surprised to learn that love and addiction can actually coexist. Learn how love addicts and avoidants form addictive relationships.
Love and Addiction: The Love Addicted Relationships - jim hall (http://www.loveaddictionhelp.com)
Addiction is characterized by the repeated, compulsive seeking or use of a substance, behavior, or activity to reach euphoric states despite negative consequences (harmful consequences to one's individual health, mental state or social life) often accompanied by physical or psychological dependence, withdrawal syndrome and tolerance.
All addictions can easily be seen as toxic love relationships.
The alcoholic is in a relationship with alcohol; the drug addict is in a relationship with the drug. The addict is in the so-called love relationship in which the object (drug, alcohol, gambling, sex, relationship/love, etc.) of addiction becomes the focus of a person’s life. In essence, it becomes their higher power. Love addiction is no different.
Love Addiction
It’s easy to understand how love addiction is a toxic relationship. It fits well.
Love addiction is a process addiction. That is, it is behavioral. Like many addictions that are well known such as alcohol or drugs, the addiction to love is not an addiction of ingesting something to get high, but an addiction to compulsive thoughts/behaviors in an attempt to feel alive, valuable, and worthy.
Obsession and high intensity created in addictive relationships is falsely perceived as real "love." However, the reality is there is no love in love addiction. Real healthy love is never addictive and addiction is not love. "Addiction" and "Healthy/Mature love" are polar opposites of each other.
"Love" in love-addicted relationships often feels very real to addictive lovers (commonly known as love addicts)—it is the delusion or fantasy of love. Because of its obsessive and dependent nature, the relationship is immature and epitomizes s a pseudo-love relationship.
At its core, addictive love is an intimacy disorder where love addicts strongly desire and yearn for close connection and intimacy, but run from it at the same time.


Healthy Love
Love is having a feeling of comfort/warmth in one's heart for someone and knowing he/she is precious and valuable despite his/her faults (also true for love for self). Giving respect to one's partner is the minimum of love. Love is nonjudgmental. Love is absent of relying on the other person to fulfill deep internal emotional needs.
Couples who love in healthy love relationships allow each other room for growth; there is a desire for the other to grow; there is compromise, negotiation. They accept and embrace each other's individuality; and there is trust and respect present.
In healthy loving relationships, emotional intimacy is present. Healthy emotional intimacy is crucial for healthy and mature love to exist. Intimacy is a core component of healthy relationships, and is central to trust, security and feelings of safety and well-being.


The Love Addict
A love addict is not addicted to love, he is not addicted to his partner—he is addicted to his/her fantasy of whom he/she thinks his partner is or who he/she wants his partner to be.
The fantasy created in his/her mind triggers a rush of powerful “feel good” brain chemicals such as dopamine, PEA, nor-epinephrine, and serotonin … all common natural key players in the process of falling in love and sexual desires.
Love addicts experience "love relationships" involving obsession, an intense desire for reciprocation and union, emotional abandonment (real or perceived), emotional highs and lows, and excessive infatuation. Everything in their life is put on hold in service to the needs and wants of their lover.
They confuse intensity and obsession with love. They unconsciously objectify their partner. They are obsessed with getting a sexual, romantic, or relationship "fix" rather than truly connecting and relating to a real human being.
Love addicts tend to draw emotionally unavailable avoidant individuals—these two types never cease to find one another. Love addicts and avoidants seem to have radar detectors where they inevitably will be drawn to each other .


The Avoidant
The Avoidant partner is not avoidant to the love addict (as love addicts like to see it); they are avoidant of intimacy, genuine closeness and being truly known. The Avoidant is compulsively counter-dependent—emotionally unavailable, disconnected; they fear being engulfed/drowned/smothered by their love addict partner.
For the Love Addict partner, Avoidants display a thrill, charm, false power, and act out seduction maneuvers—behaviors which are often a cover up to hide themselves in order to draw their partner in.
They enter relationships with rigid walls where they will let nothing or no one in, which makes healthy relationships impossible. Behind their emotional walls hides low self-esteem and the feeling that if they become truly known (display emotional intimacy) no one would ever love, accept, and value who they are.
They are attracted to needy, dependent, and vulnerable people—the love addict. People who think for themselves, have healthy emotional boundaries, solve their own problems, and care adequately for themselves are not interesting to Avoidants.
Avoidants are also dependent, yet their dependency comes from getting “high” from the ongoing admiration (being put on a pedestal) their love addict partner gives to them, which gives them a sense of power and control.
The Love Addict and Avoidant are each as emotionally unhealthy as the other, as they are impaired in their ability to bond securely as adults. Moreover, because of their deep-rooted characteristics, no matter how clever, how smart, how physically attractive or successful, they always feel incomplete.

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Everything Wrong with Marriage and why I wont do it!

Yea Mom

But who is?

True Meaning Of Swag

Scary

Help

The real WAR

Dr Seuss Says


Wizardley

I Care Thats Who Cares

And I Believe.......





Thats It.......


Monday, November 5, 2012

ThInGs I LiKe



My favorite Animal


Flamingo's

because
 they are exotic
and stand so tall
they are either lovers or loners
they are beautiful to gaze at
they are unique in color
not from here
they are big birds
Flamingo's always stick within
a huge group and travel together
but mostly stay to their known environment



and it reminds me of my grandma's mirror


plus Roy just told me that,
they always stick together 
when they migrate
choose their lover
 and make it for life
never to be with another
 even when the others gone
they are TRUE LOVERS
these birds!






My favorite color
First in mind would have to be 
YELLOW;



because it reminds me
of my favorite person in the whole world....
Grandma-Grandma
best things in my life and being a lil girl
so full of Dreams and Hope...



and my Hollie Hobbies 
Bed-spread...

Yellow reminds me of Saturday's
growing up it was Me & Daddy's Cartoon DaY....


Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Saturday, September 15, 2012

Once upon a time


A Small child,
a sad little girl,
she is terrified
inside and no one
knows it but her.... 
Scared, torn
 and being abused...
What a sad little
life living in this world.